Young people face a kaleidoscope of emotions and situations that
challenge their sense of self and ability to cope. This beautiful book offers gentle
guidance and support through a wide range of insightful and positive messages. Under
headings such as I am not invisible, Alone, Fear, I make a difference, Gratitude,
Anger, Honesty, etc. they are given thought provoking ideas to encourage
introspection and self empowerment. Sometimes humorous, sometimes bold and
always with a true reverence for peace and joy.
Other headings include: People care about me, Correcting
missteps, Patience, Loss,
Temptation, Trust, Rejection, Criticism, Failure, etc.
Excerpts and Reviewers comments below.
From the Author: We give our young
people so many material things to help them cope with the world
around them. I hope that
my book will give them something else - tools to inspire them to love themselves,
believe
in themselves, feel positive about their lives and to be more confident in their
interactions
with the world around them. I know each of them is a bright and beautiful
snowflake, finely sculptured
to perfection. I hope that when they read this book that they
will know it too.
Blessings, Daryl (Clarke) Wood
*** I Am A Snowflake is beautifully illustrated with
hand drawn snowflakes
by freelance artist, Rebecca Brown.
ORDERING INSTRUCTIONS
Daryl Wood, Healing Rock Retreat, 417 Eagle Road,
Tobermory, Ontario, Canada N0H 2R0
Phone: 519-596-2385
Email: daryl@darylwood.com
REVIEW BY SYNCHRONICITY: THE MAGAZINE
"I am a Snowflake, speaks to the uniqueness of
each of us. The book is intended mainly for junior high and high school students
as they claim identity and navigate the hazards of assuming more
self-responsibility.
The gentle guidance available in this book provides a framework
of hope, love, imagination and kindness. There are affirmations to help deal
with rejection, to mend relationships, to keep trust, to express gratitude.
Most of us could benefit from an affirmation like this one:
"I am going to handle my anger in a new and healthy way. I will slow down,
take deep breaths and find ways to release my anger that won't hurt anyone
else." Clarke suggests that we choose a topic, read it twice a day for a
week and journal our feelings at least once a day so that we can see how those
feelings shift and notice what a difference the new way of thinking or of
viewing the world makes in our lives.
Young people are encouraged to talk to adults about the topics
presented; to journal as they experiment with new attitudes; and to express
their feelings by colouring the snowflakes that are included with each topic, or
by drawing in the space available.
If you are a teenager or know one, you could benefit from
working with the affirmations found here. "
Excerpts: A few lines from some of the chapters:
I am a snowflake
I am a snowflake. I am unique. There is no one else in the whole world who is like me. I
am very special because I am different from everyone else.
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Teasing
Some people think teasing is fun or that it shows affection. I know teasing is a way of
putting other people down and making myself look better because I'm funny or superior in
some way. I know that teasing just digs away at someone's self esteem.
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I am not invisible
I am not invisible. I am real. I make a difference. Sometimes when no one pays attention
to me I imagine that I must be invisible. But of course I am not invisible.
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Listening
Sometimes I feel that no one is really listening to me. I try and tell people how I am
feeling and they seem to be waiting to talk and acting as though they know what I am going
to say before I even say it. It makes me wonder if I am a good listener.
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I choose kindness
So many people follow the crowd and never speak up when they see something is wrong or
mean. I just won't let myself do that. I can't stand to see people criticized or
humiliated because they are different.
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Forgiveness
Forgiveness is so scary because I'm afraid that if I forgive someone they'll think I
wasn't hurt and they might do it again. But I know that to forgive someone, is to set
myself free.
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The World
Today I will remember that I am part of a vast world covering many lands that I may never
see. In that world are other people, a little bit like me, a little bit like my friends, a
little bit like my family - trying to find their way and live their lives.
Comments:
"I LOVE your book: so clear; so simple; so real; so complete.
Dale Stohn, Principal, Rocklyn Academy
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"Positive, upbeat comments. I think it is particularly geared to pre-teen, early
teen population. Great job."
Ann Marie Galligan, Educator, Boston, MA
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"A treasure for all preteens. So many times we read about the dilemmas
facing teenage life. Now comes a book of reflections that inspires teens to dream. In our
fast paced world... it is a good thing to slow down and reflect on the ideal world we
dream of.... making a difference in.
A wonderful resource for anyone working with groups of teens. A great way to facilitate
discussions in any teacher adviser program. Enjoy and be inspired!"
Coosje Weber, Guidance and Healthy Active Living Educator
Lester B Pearson Public School, Kitchener-Waterloo, ON
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"It's very good. I like that it's written for kids not parents."
Katrina Kelly, 11 year old student
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"An excellent resource for kids and parents. A joy to read!"
Christina McLean-Kelly, Teaching Assistant, Hornepayne, ON
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"This unique book of affirmations helps teens embrace their individuality and
personal power."
The Resource Report, Source Re Source
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AND A FEW MORE:
"Wow! This little book is not just for young people! I have only read a
couple, but have they hit home or what.... "Control" & "Money &
Stuff" are two areas I am doing battle with right now in my life... Thanks for
sending just what I need, when I needed it!
"Oh my goodness, what a wonderful, beautiful perfect gift you have provided the
world. I just love your book, you are extra-ordinary.
"I just glanced through it (the book) quickly tonight and it is
precious. Such wisdom and so lovingly written. I will treasure it. I have decided to read
it to my sister who is living with us as she struggles with her last days with cancer. I
am sure it will help her to hear your words."
Daryl Wood, Healing Rock Retreat, 417 Eagle Road,
Tobermory, Ontario, Canada N0H 2R0
Phone: 519-596-2385 Email:
daryl@darylwood.com
